When I'm good, I'm very good. But when I'm bad I'm better.
The Sub & Dom agree
They are acting of their own free will.
Consent can be revoked by using the safe word.
Sub has limits that will be respected
They willingly consent to the Dom/Sub relationship and activities.
The Sub will:
Keep an open mind.
Know themselves.
Care for their physical and mental health.
Communicate honestly, respectfully, and clearly with their Dom
Reply timely (depending on method text/email/in-person/etc)
Obey the Dom’s requests/commands
Receive discipline from their Dom.
Have a safe word and use it when necessary.
Trust their Dom to care for them.
Not try to alter the power dynamic
Address their Dom as “Sir”.
Respond to Sub’s name “Slut”.
Maintain their appearance according to the Dom’s tastes. (clothing/hair/makeup/etc)
Workout/exercise, (including kegels) according to the Dom’s wishes
Wear a collar or symbol of their relationship/ownership at all times.
Ask for permission to masturbate or cum.
Masturbate before bed and send photos to the Dom
Use ben wa balls for an hour per day.
Wear a wireless vibrator controled by Dom from time to time.
Keep a daily journal of arousal & send it to Dom every evening.
Scene
Be clean, prepared and groomed as directed, (learn to prepare for anal sex),
Wear a collar with leash
Present themselves for the Dom’s inspection
Keep eyes downcast and not make eye contact unless permitted
Serve the Dom drinks/snacks/meals; the Sub may have to prepare food
Ask permission to eat, or use the bathroom.